Now that the world is locked down, you may find yourself spending more time online than usual. This is the best time to online BBW dating. However, don't waste time and energy texting people. My advice is to have a video date as soon as possible.
So, you've found someone, made the initial round trip, exchanged Skype or FaceTime details, made a video call - and then what?
Make an effort
Maybe you have a "video date" shirt. This is a shirt you can put on in seconds and know you look good. Once you're sure you look good, now take a look behind you. If rolled socks and empty pizza boxes are on the screen, now is the time to move them; Maybe you can even straighten the mat. Also, consider the Angle - do we like the look of a double chin? If not, make sure the camera is above your line of sight. Even if you don't meet in person, you'll still make a first impression. First impressions count.
Don't do monologues
When we communicate face to face, it's easier for us to insert and add something to the conversation, rather than digitally. So don't turn your conversation into a monologue. It's about two people getting to know each other, not one giving a paper or a speech. Generally speaking, a person asks three questions, and then it's his turn. If someone keeps asking you questions, simply say, "What about you?" If the other person keeps talking, say, "Well, in my experience," or "I've also found that..."
Practice active listening in a world where attention is a commodity, we're not used to giving 100% attention to anything. Resist the urge to check messages, sneak a peek at social media, or anything else that takes you away from the moment. It is only when two people are in the same moment, and the best gift you can give someone is your full attention, that the highest quality of connection is possible.
Keep a positive attitude
Do you think it frivolous to talk endlessly about global pandemics? I don't know. It's natural to want to solve this problem, but it can quickly change the subject. Again, this video is about two people getting to know each other better, like a real date. The goal is to determine if you'd like to spend another hour with the person.
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